Betrayal Trauma | jo batts counselling

when trust is broken

Everything changes in a single moment.
A secret discovered. A lie uncovered.
A betrayal comes to light.
In a single moment the trust is gone.
From intimate partners to strangers.
It's like your whole relationship has fallen apart.
Betrayal creates trauma which changes everything. How you see yourselves, each other, and your relationship.

The first step toward healing is getti

Michelle Mays (2024)

"My wish for every betrayed partner is that they can make the decision to stay or leave from a place of clarity, freedom from fear and freedom from shame."

step 1.

Individual therapy

This is an early and important first step to gain individual support to cope with the immediate aftermath and devastation of discovery of betrayal. A safe place to cope with the rush to emotion and work through the shock and questions.

step 2.

Reliable Resources

Betrayal is a profoundly disorienting experience, shaking the very foundation of what you believed to be true. It forces you to question everything—your past, present, and future. In the aftermath, gaining insight, understanding, and the tools to navigate this turmoil becomes essential for survival. It's important to turn to trusted sources of information rather than relying on general internet searches.

step 3.

Zoom support Group

One of the most common responses to betrayal is exhaustion and isolation. Relationships with friends and family can shift overnight, becoming complicated and strained. For many, finding a stand alone community of others who are at various stages of this journey and can offer wisdom and support becomes a crucial lifeline.

step 4.

A personalised plan

Betrayal throws life into chaos, causing everything to change in an instant. Figuring out where to turn and who to trust requires immense courage and effort, making every decision feel like a challenge.

Having access to a step-by-step plan for the minutes, hours, days, and weeks ahead can help chart a course through the uncertainty.